Back in 2013, I asked myself a question that flipped my world upside down:

“Why do I find some people so easy… and others just plain difficult?”

It wasn’t just a passing thought. That single question kicked off a journey that would transform my relationships, my business — and ultimately — myself.

Around the same time, I did a DISC assessment. What it revealed was like being handed a mirror I couldn’t unsee:

• My communication patterns

• My cognitive biases

• My default emotional responses

And then it hit me — like Thor slamming his hammer into the earth ⚡️

The people I found “easy”?
They were just like me. We spoke the same language. We valued the same things. We had an unspoken understanding of how respect looks and feels.

But the “difficult” ones? They were my opposite.
Different values. Different emotional needs. A totally different playbook.

That insight became a turning point.

I realised:

My success (in life and business) hinges on one thing —
My ability to a...

Do you know the two P’s relating to ‘difficult people’?

They stand for...

First P: Predictable. 

It’s 100% predictable who you will have difficulties with, who will press your buttons, and who will challenge you. 

Difficulties stem from differences in behavioural and psychological patterns. 

Second P: Preventable.

It’s 100% preventable to have difficulties with certain personalities.

It also means that you can obtain positive outcomes instead of negatives ones as long as you can successfully read and relate to other people. 

Let's illustrate this with an example.

The General Manager of a sizeable business had been working together with the CEO for the past 20 years.

A new senior leader joined the team and within a matter of months, he was able to secure funding in the millions, backed by the CEO. 

My client (the GM), could not understand how this new person pulled off such a feat, especially since the GM had attempted to secure funding on several occasions himself, unsuccess...

It was as if Thor hit the earth with his mighty hammer. 

Electricity ran through my veins. I felt so energised and certain.

It was the year 2013, and I had an epiphany of magnitude.

Nothing was ever the same again. 

As I embarked on a 6 month personal development journey, I reaped the personal, professional, business and financial rewards really quickly.

The impact was so profound that I've been sharing my insights with the world ever since.

This brings me to you:

Have you ever felt stuck dealing with a difficult colleague, client, or even a loved one? No matter how hard you try, communication just doesn’t click, and progress stalls.

What if you could change that—easily?

Join me for a FREE online training which I host regularly:

💻 “3 Steps to Get Along With Anyone, Even Difficult People, and Get Results”

After the success of my second book “How to Communicate for Results & Feel Great”, I received countless messages from professionals, leaders, and business owners who struggle ...